JOSH IS HOME!!!!!!!

As of Saturday, December 27 at 5:25 or so--- JOSH IS HOME!!

As of Tuesday, December 23 at 10:10 a.m., they were in Ft. Bragg!!!

As of Tuesday, December 23 at 6:05 a.m., he was on US SOIL!!!!!!

As of Monday, December 22 at 9:00 p.m., they were in Ireland.

As of Friday, December 19 at 8:30 am ET, he was in Kyrgyzstan.

See the blog posts below for the latest.


Homecoming Contest!!

BEFORE THE END OF 2008 WON!!!

Here is the list of people who voted for this timeframe: Hilary Trevenen, Norm,
Abby/Brian Withey, Dad Contri, Donna, Dominic, Jonathan (and one unknown)
After Josh returns, we'll announce who the big winner is!!


28 December 2008

A real welcome home treat!

Since the marathon, I have been very busy, so busy that I haven't ran since my little burst of energy on Election Day. I have missed the running quite a bit, but have created my very own masterpiece. While Josh was gone last year (2007) during one of his training sessions, a little idea popped into my head. I was cleaning the downstairs, annoyed because we always let that be the last area that got cleaned, but more so because I didn't think we actually utilized the space - just plain off white walls, with a lot of usable space! We had a futon, a couple of bookshelves, and a TV hooked up to a VCR and DVD player, but not to cable. The wheels started to turn...

I knew I wanted to do something special for his birthday, being that he was away, it was his 33rd and his birthday is on Veterans Day. So, how about a new TV...


I have always wanted a fireplace, so my parents bought this for our Christmas gift.


I decided I wanted to get rid of the futon and buy a real couch.


Of course, I couldn't have just a couch and I fell in love with this chair at Babies 'R Us on one of my shopping adventures.

Now that you have seen all of the "key pieces", here are some shots of the entire room, paint colors, and everything put together... Remember just off white walls before, no chair rail, no built-in!



Here are some pictures of the office...


The bathroom even got a fresh look...


As for Josh's reaction... Well, I scheduled this post to appear today. Hopefully, I got some great shots of his reaction and I will post those as soon as I can! Check back later...

27 December 2008

December 27th

Hooray for this day that is finally here!!
We will forever celebrate this day as a special day in our house!

26 December 2008

Tomorrow, Tomorrow, I Love Ya Tomorrow...

... you're only a day away!!!

This is such an exciting time! I talked to Josh each of the past few nights. One of his good soldier buddies is with him and Josh uses his cell phone to call. It is wonderful to hear the excitement in his voice, eventhough there are a lot of yawns and you know that he is exhausted.

Josh said that Christmas was a bit odd -- just another day. They were allowed to leave post for dinner, so they went to a Japanese steakhouse - yum!! I am sure he tried to catch up on sleep, but when you don't have a pillow, I am sure even that is hard.

I spent the morning at the house. I did receive a wonderful surprise on Christmas Eve from my friend Megumi in Japan, so I had a great gift to open. My parents arrived at 11 and we headed up to Auburn to see Diane, Brian, Francesca, TJ and Ella. I had not seen TJ and Ella in quite some time (at least 7 weeks ago?). They are all doing wonderfully and have some amazing outfits to wear when they see Uncle Josh tomorrow! I returned home for the day and started making sugar cookies. My Mom had mixed the cookies for me - a double batch. About 1/2 way through the first batch of dough, I was ready to stop making them... I swear that dough multiplies! (Mom, you were right!)

My sister (Donna) is coming in this morning to help frost the cookies, deliver Cody's naptime apparatus (aka - a pack and play) and help with some other things. It will be great to spend some time with just Donna and she will be able to keep me calm and on track. I really don't have much to finish up before Josh gets home -- I have kept things moving right along.

Josh's family is leaving today to head up from Virginia. They "LOVE" (not) traveling through the great state of Pennsylvania, so I am sure the 232 miles through PA will seem like 500 to them today. The manager at the Country Inn and Suites is giving us a special rate for Josh's return. What a great little place that is and it's just around the corner from the house!!

I know that right now I am running on pure adrenalin!! I am beyond thrilled. The house looks amazing, if I say so myself. I even cleaned the garage on Christmas Eve!!! And even better, the garbage man just came for recyclables and he took the huge (MASSIVE) box of cardboard that I put out. Woohoo!

T minus 34 1/2 hours!!!!!!!!!

25 December 2008

All I want for Christmas...

... WILL BE HERE ON SATURDAY!!!

Yes, Just about 57 more hours. Josh is scheduled to arrive in Syracuse late Saturday afternoon!!! It will be wonderful to have him in my arms and HOME!!

It will be quite the sight, between our entire family -- there will be 23 of us there to welcome him home!! Two of which, TJ and Ella, Josh has yet to meet. Quite the treat for him, that is for sure!

Have yourself a Merry little Christmas ...

24 December 2008

Busy Times in Ft. Bragg

Josh called this morning at 4:33 a.m. His good friend Hulsizer still has his cell phone and let him borrow it. Josh destroyed his cell phone prior to leaving -- unintentionally. They were doing some "army tactics" where he had to keep dropping out of the turret and it just kept getting beat up, so he bid it adieu prior to leaving for Afghanistan. We'll get him a new one once the dust settles and he has been home for a bit.

They are keeping them VERY busy in Ft. Bragg. They were in the demob process until 11 p.m. last night and had to be ready to go at 5 a.m. this morning for more. They can get away with this because 1.) WE WANT THEM HOME! 2.) THEY WANT TO BE HOME! and 3.) Their internal clocks are so screwed up that they don't know what is day or night. He said when he got up at 4 to make some phone calls that lights were out, but everyone was awake. It does sound promising that they continue to push them through as quickly as possible.

All in all, from Kyrgyzstan to Ft. Bragg, they were flying for 26 HOURS!!! Insane!! I am not sure if I would ever want to fly again, but I know Josh will! They flew from Afghanistan to Krygyzstan to Azerbaijan to Ireland to Maine to Ft. Bragg. They were delayed twice - once on the way out of Afghanistan and then again on the way out of Kyrgyzstan. I am not sure the cause of the delay in Afghanistan, but I do know it was weather related in Kyrgyzstan. In the end, it really doesn't matter. I firmly believe that regardless of when he left any destination that it would have been after Christmas for him to come home. I do think that him arriving in the US so close to Christmas is working to our advantage as they are trying to get them home as soon as possible after Christmas. In the end, it's a reminder that Christmas is a day, but it can be celebrated whenever and for however long - it's the spirit of the season!!

It was such a wonderful surprise. Of course, I am now awake - WIDE awake, but it gives me a jump start on the day. I can always take a nap later! I should hear from Josh tomorrow. So, if you are interested and need a break from the delicious food or sharing in gift giving and receiving, I hope to post to the blog tomorrow once I have heard from him.

Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah!

23 December 2008

GOD BLESS THE USA!!!

UPDATE: Moving right along!!!
At 10:10 a.m. this morning they were in FT BRAGG!!!!!
YIPPEE-SKIPPEE!!!!!

Josh called at 6:05 a.m. this morning and he was in MAINE!!

He will be making his way straight to Ft. Bragg and bypassing Atlanta!

As soon as they get to Ft. Bragg, they will start the demob process, so we may not hear from him for a little bit.

I did know this was coming, as I heard that they were in Ireland last night. Fortunately, there were three flights of soldiers going home (all different destinations), which unfortunately meant the phone lines were mobbed. Another wife was able to let me know where they were as she had a nice birthday surprise - hearing from her husband that he was in Ireland on his way home!!

Hopefully, they will move right along the demobilization process and BE HOME SOON!!!! Yippeeeeee!!!

22 December 2008

Insert Jeopardy Tune Here

Do do do do dodododo do ... I find myself singing that in my head several times a day just waiting for the phone to ring. Yesterday, I had the phone turned up as loud as it would go because I was all over the house doing stuff. I went to Kmart last night and had forgot to adjust the volume. I think everyone in the store knew that someone's phone was ringing. Oops.

We continue to wait. I have not heard from Josh since Friday morning and the anxiety grows by the second for the next phone call indicating his newest location. I honestly thought we would have had a new location by now. My boss said well, "no new is good news" and I told him and as I have said before, "no news is no fun!"

... do do dododododo dooo dooo ...

19 December 2008

Coming Up Next...

Here is a brief overview of Josh's travels and how he will spend his time over the next few days/weeks.

At some point, hopefully soon, he will leave Kyrgyzstan and head west to Europe, landing in either Germany or Ireland. We will not know when that happens until he arrives in that country. If he is able to call, he will, but hopefully at least an e-mail. We have known that the turn-around for these flights can be quick, but we are not for sure on how things will happen.

From Europe, he will fly to the USA!!!

And then catch another flight to Ft. Bragg, where he will complete the demobilization process. This can range any number of days, usually 4 - 8, but we aren't sure how the holidays may impact that process.

Once the demob process is complete, he will then come home!

The interesting part of his travels thus far is that he is already separated from his bags! There were some issues leaving the country and the baggage was separated from the soldiers. The military has a very interesting packing process, and Josh has been know to have to pack and re-pack several times for each trip. There are specific numbers of each item in each bag that he has or had to pack to come home and it is likely that he will have to do some wash at some point along the way.

Stay tuned...

Sleeping Well...

Just to note, I can only speak on Josh's behalf, meaning I am not aware of any soldiers who are traveling with him. I do know that the unit has sent a group home already and that Josh is in the second group, but I do not know anyone that is in the group with him or even a number of people from his unit that are traveling with him.

I received a phone call this morning from Josh - still is Kyrgyzstan, but doing really well. He said that he slept wonderfully last night, as I did, along with the rest of our families! Obviously, no new information that he can share. He did say that they "aren't doing much". A group of soldiers (not affiliated with him) had left, so he was able to move to the bottom bunk which was really exciting for him, as he had been on the top bunk since they doubled up at Camp Phoenix.

He was comparing the food to Camp Phoenix. Not really any better or worse, but he said it was different because it was a different contractor. Still talking about the full-size candy bars that they get for dessert!

It's cold and snowy there -- in the mid-20s. I told him "Welcome Home!" and that we were in the 20s with forecast for 8 - 14 inches of snow today! He was excited, as he was hoping for a white Christmas/return home. He said that they were all excited to see the snow because it reminded them all of home.

Where they are at is a big air force base, and there are NY Air Guard people there, so several of the people that are with him are actually running into people that they know. All in all he is doing well.

Again, he didn't share any new information, but at least we know that he is there and doing well.

Until next time...

18 December 2008

Start spreading the news...

Bare with me for a moment….

Some folks like to getaway
Take a holiday from the neighborhood
Hop a flight to Miami Beach or to Hollywood
But he’s takin’ an air force jet on the outbound Afghanistan line
He’s in a New York state of mind!

He’s seen all of the local folk with their loaded camel or a jingle truck
Been traveling round the country under the radar & praying for luck
He knows what he’s needing and he doesn’t want to waste more time
He’s in a New York state of mind!!!

Yes, it is true – Josh is on his way home!!! At 11:30 am local time on December 18 (2:00 am Eastern time in the US), Josh’s flight departed Afghanistan.

He is currently in Krygyzstan for some out-processing. Krygyzstan is northeast of Afghanistan, near China. It's 11 hours ahead of us. (Way to fly east to go west!!) We do not know how long he will be there, but know that they will be traveling/demobilizing for about 2 weeks before arriving in New York. Home for Christmas is definitely not an option, but maybe for New Years! Regardless, he is safe and will be home soon! He called shortly after I arrived at work, and I have yet to take off my coat or change out of my sneakers!! Who cares!!!
We'll keep you posted as the good news continues to come in!!

16 December 2008

Just another month, maybe?

Could it be just one more month!? While Josh left on January 19, his official orders started January 17, which means January 16, 2009 would complete his full year! One month from today!

Many of you in the area saw the homecoming last Tuesday of the first 100 to return. There were a few in the group from Josh's unit, but as the article and news stories indicated, there are still over 1200 in Afghanistan from the NY Guard. A few hundred returned back in September as they were deployed last September as part of the advance/transition teams.

We continue to wait for any word from Josh indicating his return. Otherwise, he continues to do well. Decorations for the holidays are in full force in Afghanistan. He has said all year that for any holiday -- the decorations are big -- Constitution Day and all!

We'll keep you posted!

08 December 2008

The Weather in Afghanistan

A lot of people have been asking what the weather is in Afghanistan...

The last weather report from Josh was that "the snow was half-way down the mountain".

I did look on weather.com and their daytime highs are in the upper 40s with the overnight lows being in the mid-20s. He'll be in for a little bit of shock when he returns home, but not as drastic as people might think.

And these are the days of our lives...

Waiting! Seems that is what Josh and I are doing a lot of these days. Waiting for any word, any movement to occur that will indicate he is coming home.

E-mails from Josh are quick and sporadic which means he is staying busy. I don't really get a lot of information. Each day more and more of the Illinois National Guard arrives, which means the end is near. They have doubled up in their living quarters -- 2 to a room, so they have 14 people in the b-hut now. Can anyone say crowded?!

Preparations for the holidays are in full swing at home. Still a few purchases to make, but for the most part the shopping is done! Some of the gifts are packaged up and ready for giving, some are still sitting in bags. The tree is not up yet... hopefully soon though. We invested in a really nice artificial tree last year. Though I prefer the smell of the real tree, I don't mind the stress free "up-keep" of the artificial one. It will stay up until Josh is home, so for this year it works really well, as we don't have worry about keeping the tree alive and flourishing. I guess that is why Yankee makes the scented candles!

We'll keep you posted...

03 December 2008

It's December!

Woohoo for finally reaching December!!

Question: When is Josh coming home?

Answer: We still don't know.

Sorry to get your hopes up, but many, many people have been asking and I am sure there are others who have wanted to ask. It's not really the answer any of us want to hear, but as I have said many times... "it's the Army!" There is a good chance that we won't know when Josh is coming home until his on a plane or in one of his layover destinations. From there, it will take him about two weeks to get home, which is a safe estimate with factoring in travel time and the demobilization process, among an assortment of bumps in the road that could pop up. As soon as we have any information, we will share it loud and clear. Until then, we just hang on to the thought that it is coming soon!

27 November 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!

The things we are thankful for...
I received the following in an e-mail from Josh this week...
"I am thankful for you, family, our nieces and nephews, my real job, friends, and the fact that we are citizens of a developed and democratic country."

23 November 2008

Happy Engagement Anniversary

Josh proposed to me four years ago today. It was such a wonderful day and one that I never would have guessed for it to end the way it did. For those of you who have come into our lives since our engagement and/or wedding, here is the short version of the proposal story that we included in our Christmas cards that year... that Josh - he is somthing else!!

The Broken Road Mission, tied into their favorite song – Bless the Broken Road by Rascal Flatts - began at his school after driving the two hours to Northern Virginia. Darci thought she and Diane were meeting Josh for dinner, but she was quickly surprised when she was told he left school already. The school staff provided Darci with a box full of items - a map, mission book, the key to his apartment building, camera, video camera, batteries, money and food... all to aid in the Broken Road Mission. Josh taped himself the night before and provided Darci with her mission on video.

On the way to each destination, Diane would read special notes to Darci which were included in the mission book. After leaving his school, Darci, with Diane’s assistance, drove from there to Josh’s apartment to their favorite breakfast spot, then through Old Town Alexandria to Gravelly Point – a place of many special memories. From there, it was on to the final destination – the Washington Harbour in Georgetown, the place where Josh and Darci went with their mutual friend Wendy (the matchmaker) upon meeting each other in March 2004.

As Darci and Diane arrived, Josh was standing on the boardwalk by the Potomac River near the very spot where Josh and Darci were that wonderful night eight months ago. Soon after spotting Josh, Darci approached him, while Diane watched with a camera in hand. Nearly three hours later and the Broken Road Mission complete, Josh proposed to Darci. And of course, she said yes!

Ahhh the memories!!

21 November 2008

"The Incredible Little Car Who Shifts for Himself!"

Things with Josh are going well. He greatly appreciated everyone's birthday wishes from 1/2 way around the world. As many of you know, since you participated in it, there was a little drive to see how many birthday cards he could receive. We don't have an official number as of yet, but he stopped counting at 300!!! They kept pouring in. He even recieved 21 cards in the mail on his birthday! We'll count them once he returns home! Perhaps I will even post a picture of them all displayed, though I envision setting them all up and a dominoe reaction occuring before we ever get to the end.


I missed my usual monthly milestone for the 19th of the month! Wednesday was actually a pretty long day, but it is worth mentioning that November 19th brought us to the double digits of Josh being gone -- 10 months! This is exciting because his deployment is supposed to be 12 months, so we are inching our way closer!


The good news is that the holidays are just around the corner, which again, means Josh's homecoming is not far off either. It's been a long year for sure and we look forward to the new year and everything it will bring!


I was blessed with two great phone calls from Josh this week - which is (unfortunately) a rare treat (the number of them that is!). He is doing well and looks forward to coming home with each passing day. Safe to say, the 7 by 7 plywood room has lost it's luster, in addition to close living quarters within the hut. He continues to stay busy by car shopping from afar. This week's online discovery... Reconditioned Beetles from the 70s...



Josh love his beetles. He dressed up as Herbie when he was a little tyke, around age 5. Did you know that it took about 100 vehicles to make the Herbie movie? Each vehicle was specifically made for each of his stunts, i.e driving backwards meant the chasis was turned around, a sports car motor was installed for it to do wheelies, etc. Amazing what it took to produce a movie before special effects and computer imaging! No, I did not know this little fact. Josh certainly may have, but I did not! A local car salesman buys replica cars from movies and his latest purchase was a HERBIE complete with the 53 and stripes! There was an article in the local newspaper about it, so I learned some "fast facts"!


On the other side of the world... I have been staying busy by Christmas shopping, though it was a rough start. I went last weekend on Friday and Saturday to different locations and only had some minor luck on Friday and nothing was checked off the list on Saturday. Thankfully, this week, I was able to accomplish quite a bit. I am even close to making the list of what is left to get and where. Yet in comparison to last year, I am a quite a bit behind as I had all presents purchased and wrapped, with the exception of a few things that had to wait. Hopefully a few more trips is all it will take! At times I do miss the spirit of shopping in December, but the leisurely approach and stress-free experience that I had this week makes it hard to not want anything but doing it in advance! I have been sending Josh links to everything I have purchased for everyone so that he can see it all in advance. We have exchanged a lot of "idea e-mails" and this gives him an opportunity to weigh-in on the gift, just as if we were in the mall together. (Except it might require a return trip. Thankfully though, I am "batting a thousand" so far!)

12 November 2008

And then there were eleven!

Some happy news from home...

As most of you know, I work at SUNY Cortland as the the Special Events Coordinator for the President's Office, coordinating social events for the President and major "special events" such as Academic Convocation, Honors Convocation and Commencement for the College. For three and 1/2 years, I have been a full-time, 12 month employee. After being home with Josh this summer for a couple of weeks (out of the office for a total of three weeks) and being able to pick-up where I left off without any stress or cause for concern, I realized that this might be something to consider for the future.

After weighing the pros and cons and really thinking about it for a few months, I pitched an idea to Josh over email about changing my professional obligation to the College. We finally had the opportunity to talk about it on the phone in late September or early October. I officially submitted the request to become an 11 month employee of the College. And on Monday, November 3, I received word that it was APPROVED and I finalized everything today - signatures and all!! I will now enjoy one month off every summer (most likely July) with Josh, but still earn the same benefits.

"Every man who possibly can should force himself to a holiday of a full month in a year, whether he feels like taking it or not."
William James

Love the sound of that... holiday!

11 November 2008

Happy Birthday AND Veteran's Day!

Happy 33rd Birthday, Josh!!




"It's the best!"... 33 yellow cupcakes with chocolate frosting!




How many birthday cards did you get??

In Afghanistan it's been Josh's birthday for 9 and 1/2 hours already! His birthday is 33 and 1/2 hours long this year!


and

In honor of Veterans Day...

Thank You Josh!
Love you!

06 November 2008

New Songs, Baby Wipes and So Cute!

Some of my favorite lines in a recent e-mail from Josh...

"I found this song on itunes - it is on O.A.R.'s new album. The song is called War Song and it is a serious song about places like this godforsaken hellhole, but the first line makes me laugh so hard, b/c it is so true. It is... OH MY GOD, TELL ME THIS WON'T LAST FOREVER. haha Isn't that what I said? I told everyone about it and now I just randomly sing it out. I should write songs. haha.

"I am going to bed. I cleaned my room today. It was so dirty. I even mopped with baby wipes. haha.

"Just to let you know that these sixty something year old women KBR workers stopped me in one of the many chow halls I have been in the last 48 hours and said we just have to tell you, you are so cute. What a bunch of nutties. haha."

05 November 2008

And for the seventh time . . .

. . . It's the 5th of the month! Which means Josh has been in Afghanistan... you guessed it... 7 months OR 214 days!! Stay safe Josh, you are close to coming home! xoxoxo

04 November 2008

Tuesday, November 4th

Please remember to vote!

I ran to my polling place this morning. Literally! I laced up my shoes and ran the 1 mile to the Methodist Church. It was my first time voting in person. The last election, I had just re-united with Josh after he finished up his Basic/AIT Training, so I voted absentee. I was yelled at for going through the wrong door (Shame on me!). I mean the whole one other person that was there voting, I can see where they would have gotten us confused. Voter #60 at 6:30 this morning. I voted!
You have to love Google's creativity! (Thanks, Diane for sharing this!)

02 November 2008

Baci In Action



So, I was in the gym, there was an incident and I had to get ready fast and be on the truck yesterday. I am wearing my vest but underneath is my sweaty pt shirt. haha. Normally I would have on my ACU top or ACU combat t-shirt. I did not have time to fix my helmet and it got all askew in the hubbub. You can't tell because my vest is kind of covering it, but my pants are falling down-even with wearing my pt shorts inderneath because I had no time for a belt. haha. Notice the unlaced boots with shoelaces hanging all about. I just look like such a Gomer Pile. haha. Sgt. Gridley thought was the best part for some reason-the shoelaces. The whole thing turned a serious evening into something funny. haha.

Another Hour Apart

With daylight savings time ending, Josh is now 9 and 1/2 hours ahead of us. Eventhough we are both in the same location, it really does feel like he is further away.

Checked out the weather for Kabul... The sun sets over there just before 4:30 in the afternoon! At first I didn't think twice about that since it will be like that for us in another month or so, but then I realized not many of the Afghan people have electricity. Daylight is their source of light. Right now, the daytime highs are in the upper 60s and lowers 70s. It gets down into the low 40s overnight. In looking at the month of November, by the end of the month, the highs will be in the low 50s and below freezing overnight.

31 October 2008

Uncle Josh's Little Ghosts and Ghouls

Happy Halloween!!

I thought I would share pictures of all the nieces and nephews from Halloween. Enjoy!

We'll start with the newest (youngest to oldest)...
TJ and Ella sported some cute halloween themed outfits during the day. TJ's reads "Daddy's Little Monster" and Ella's reads "I love my Mummy!" Gotta love TJ's hair!





Takoda was a pumpkin, or a Pooped Pumpkin as Grandma said. Apparently, he was pretty tuckered out by the end of the day!





Check out his teeth!!


Francesca carving her pumpkin... ah the wonder of the pumpkin guts!


Aarrrrrrrrrgh! One scary pirate!



Rah, rah, rah! Go USA! I think Cassie picked this just for Uncle Josh!





Cassie wasn't really good at posing for the camera, so we had to get some "action" shots.




Jonathan has been promoted!!! A few years ago Dominic wore this costume and Jonthan was the dalmation puppy!





Go, go power rangers! Dominic, are you smiling? :-)




Ready for more... off to Auburn!



Hailey must have been moooooooooooovin' and groovin' for Halloween. Hopefully, I'll post a picture here soon.

30 October 2008

"Running with My Boo!"


This past weekend, I traveled down to Virginia to cheer on Jennifer in her 26.2 mile journey - the Marine Corp Marathon.

I made several signs for the race, in particular this one.


And they're off... this is the lead group at Mile 1! (Somewhere in that group is an alum from SUNY Cortland who placed 2nd among the men!! Go Fred!)




I had the pleasure of running portions of the race with Jen. I linked up with her shortly after mile 11 and ran around Hains Point to Mile 15 with her. While she ran the 5 miles to Mile 20, I walked a block over and reunited with her for another 6 mile run to the 26 flag. She did an amazing job - one of the most consistently paced runs I have ever seen and she reached her goal of breaking 5 hours, with a 4:54:42 finish! Way to go, Jen!!

When It Rains, It Pours

From Josh... "It did something that it has not done since April here - in any measureable amount - it rained. I mean pitch poured. You couldn't leave the b-hut or you would be instantly soaked. I forgot how much I hate when it rains here because it makes everything smell so much worse and it seems to stay damp forever. It finally dried out this afternoon. It is back to being sunny today, but I think it is only making it into the 60s. It does not get light until 530 which is a big deal because it used to get light at 400 and now it is dark by 530 at night. We wont change time so come Saturday, we will be 9 1/2 hours ahead of you all. So excited that there is only 2 more days in Oct. This month took forever. We are all afraid that Nov. will be long too."

There was a bombing today in Afghanistan too. As Josh said, Afghans killing Afghans, but he wrote to let us know he is fine.

21 October 2008

The Four Letter S-Word

Anyone want to take a guess... SNOW! It has started to arrive in Afghanistan, just along the mountains, but it is coming. Josh writes, "There is snow on the mountains again. Every night it snows a little bit, enough to coat the top of the mountains, but by mid morning all the snow is gone. It still gets to warm up there during the day." Of course, Afghanistan isn't the only place that is seeing snow. We are actually in the forecast for a light, light coating (possibly) overnight. I guess what is most exciting about this is that we have returned to the Fall/Winter here in NY, and Josh left when there was snow on the ground... so we are approaching his return.

Josh is away right now on a mission/job, though he is stationed at another FOB, not moving around the country. They do not have internet connections for each of the soldiers, but there is a computer station where he waits in line to write. Things are going well for the most part. He has some evening duties, so he is adjusting his sleep schedule accordingly. He has been visiting the gym each day as well. Which according to some people, they thought he needed it... Josh writes, "This guy from this other platoon who is with us here at Phoenix said the other day that I must have taken up running and biking in the gym because I was getting heavy before the deployment. Was I getting fat before we left?? I did not thinks so; I mean I carried a little more weight before we left, but I do not think I was heavy. Do you? Be honest." NO, Josh, not at all!

I missed the monthly posting for the 19th of the month. Hopefully, if all goes as planned, three months from now, Josh will be home, safe and sound. We have not heard anything on a return date. Everyone is hearing something different. The replacements are supposed to arrive late next month, but we are not sure how long it will take for him to leave Afghanistan. Of course, the route back is long and complicated and he won't come directly home. The will "demob" somewhere in the US, possibly Ft. Bragg or possibly elsewhere (anything closer would be better)! My 19th of the month treat was a sports massage following the marathon. It worked it's magic.

17 October 2008

Traveling Through Salang Pass

This is an e-mail that Josh sent to Barry School this week. It is a pretty good update of what he has been up to.

"Hope you all do not mind my messages, but every once in awhile our battle rhythm is slow...I try to keep busy during the down time by going to the gym, watching movies or AFN-American Forces Network but the treadmill gets old and I get tired of the chuckleheads in there. How many times can you really watch Wedding Crashers and as far as AFN goes I have seen the same Kristie Alley made for TV movie where she goes crazy and keeps foster kids locked in her basement four times since being here. I seriously think AFN is a subsidiary of Lifetime Television. I am really not a fan of Lifetime to begin with, so AFN is kind of a drag. So, I pass the time and get my kicks out of sending e-mail to folks to pass the time. Lucky you guys. haha. Feel free to delete on receipt. I will never know. haha.

"So last week was a really big week for a geek like me. haha. Our platoon is at times tasked, in addition to our other duties, to conduct long range convoy operations. We have been all over. I have been as far east as Jalalabad, as far south as Helmand and Khandhar-a couple of times. Last week, we were tasked with a long range to go to Konduz which is about as far north as you can go in Afghanistan before hitting all the other "Stans". What was great about this trip is we were going to get to go through the famed Salang pass which goes through the Hindu Kush mountains. Kabul is a little over a mile high. The top of the pass reaches just about 11,000 feet. It is a slow and steep climb. Lots of switchbacks and sheer drop offs. At the top of the pass is a 4KM long tunnel that is barely two lanes wide. It has no lights and no ventilation. It was built by the Soviets during their time here. Awesome. Good ol' 24 was a champ climbing the mountain pass. However, I noticed several Soviet tanks were not so lucky as we saw several of them at the bottom of canyons hundreds of feet below us. After seeing these, the platoon sgt. would follow up each time by telling me, "Now, Baci remember I have kids." I mean I was not planning to ruin anyone's day. The tunnel was wild. Due to the lack of any ventilation, smog just hung in the air. When we would pass another large vehicle, the truck would scrape the walls and the other truck b/c it was so narrow. In the middle of the tunnel, you reach the apex of the pass and then start the descent down the other side. More switchbacks and sheer drop offs, more reminders about children back home. When we got to the bottom of the pass, we conducted a tactical refueling drill which is really a fancy way of saying "watch Josh run around as fast as he can with huge fuel cans full of diesel fuel and put as much fuel in the truck as he can before the Lt. decides we have been stopped long enough". As I was refueling, I looked up at the gunner in our truck. His face was completely black from all the smog in the tunnel. What a trip-literally.

"For some reason there was an unusual amount of livestock in the road on this trip and it kind of became a running joke. We almost hit a goat, a sheep, and a camel. You think a deer does serious front end damage. I can not imagine what a camel would do-but there he/she was just running across the road in front of us, and they say an eleven thousand pound vehicle can't stop on a dime. haha. It was great to see the Hindu Kush mountains and go through the Salang Pass after reading and hearing so much about it.

"My other big nerd moment came over the weekend. I grew up literally "Inside the Beltway". My Dad worked for the government. Members of Congress and Senators lived in my suburban town-not the Obama, Clinton, or McCain kind-just average 9-5 congressman and senators. I even profited from it. I had a little lawn mowing business when I was in junior high and I would tool my little mower all around the neighborhood cutting lawns and word of mouth got me a job mowing a senator's lawn. I thought this was so cool. I mean he could have had a huge lawn business cut his lawn but he had this gangly kid cut it with his Craftsman mower. haha. In reality, I think he was too cheap to hire a big lawn mowing business but he was my best paying customer-a whole twenty bucks. Woohoo. Extra cheese on the pizza tonight! Politics was just a part of life. So, when they asked people who would be interested in meeting with a group of NY congressman and woman I was game, plus it got me out of some work. Don't judge. haha. Anyway, one of them was our Congressional Representative-Michael Arcuri. When they asked for people who were willing to meet with them, it really meant that they needed you to pose for pictures, but I didn't care. There was one congresswoman from Nevada in the group and she got up in the turret behind a gun and started swinging it around wildly and posing for pictures. She kind of made everyone a little nervous. haha. This is the link to one of the pictures and articles written about the event. http://www.dmna.state.ny.us/arng/27bct/newsletter/keepingtabs_37.pdf
The others in the pictures are other guys in my unit. As you are looking at the picture, the man directly to my left is SFC. Adams, my platoon sgt. He is the guy I am driving around all the time and warns me about his kids. haha. The vehicle in the background is a Cougar. If you could see the whole grill-you would say yeah that does look like a Cougar. I don't drive that, but it is a new vehicle-so we pulled it out to impress the good congressmen/woman. I think a more effective display would have been to put my patched up truck out there. haha.

"It has gotten a lot cooler here over the last week. I finally had to put away my PT shorts/short sleeve PT shirts and break out my Army issued high speed PT jogging suit. haha. It still reaches the high 60s/low70s but the mornings and the late afternoons/early evenings are really cool. For obvious reasons, the b-huts are non-smoking. I am a non-smoker but 95% of the personnel in my platoon are smokers and lots of socializing in our downtime for our platoon goes on in the smoke shack-a small open air pavillion structure-just outside of our b-hut. So now I am finding I have to bundle up pretty good at night if I am going to stay up on current events in our platoon, unit, and on the FOB. There is more gossip in this place than a junior high cafeteria-no lie.

"Hope you guys are all doing well.. It is almost the weekend! That really doesn't mean anything to me, but the upside to that is that Monday is never a downer. haha. Have a good one. Josh"

16 October 2008

Josh Meets Our Congressman in A-Stan!

This was from an e-mail Josh sent over the weekend... "So, then guess what happened this afternoon? Michael Arcuri, with a whole bunch of NY Congressmen/women came to Phoenix today. (CO) was responsible for taking him around. They asked if anyone wanted to meet him, so I said I would. I got my picture taken with them - look in the newspaper a million people took pictures. I also got the CO to introduce me to him. I was the only one there from his district. haha. I was such a geek because everyone was so put off by the whole thing and I thought it was cool.. haha Can you believe it? You will have to tell the (P's). I know they love him. . . It has been a great day."

When I spoke with Josh after the marathon, he was still so excited about the opportunity to meet him. I think most importantly, it was a reminder of home for Josh.

Here is the Keeping Tabs newsletter that the 27th BCT writes, including a picture with Congressman Arcuri in the center and Josh in the front row! (Missing that smile though!)

15 October 2008

Race Day - Sunday, October 12

So, I set my alarm for 5:30 and wouldn't you know that I woke up at 5:28 from a dream that I had where the clock said 7:30! Nothing like getting the heart rate going first thing in the morning. Like most runners, I had everything laid out the night before and was ready to go in no time. We left the hotel around 6:30 and made our way down North Columbus Ave to the Starting Corrals, with a quick port-a-pottie stop. Jen had taken a picture of my reaction to leaving the pottie, but unfortunately it didn't turn out well.

I lined up in the Open Corral (aka with the "normal runners") as instructed. There were corrals for the Elite, Top 100, Corrals A - D for seeded times, and then Open... so, I was part of the caboose to this crazy train! Based on my pace for the training runs, I lined up with the 4:30 finishers, or around a 10:00 pace. I debated on lining up with a pace group, but since I hadn't trained with pace groups, I didn't want to get flustered. Note to those who might do this in the future... stick to what you did in training.



Off I go, no turning back...


As the start drew near the corrals became more and more crowded. We were all instructed to be to the corrals around 7 am, but of course, there are those who don't think the rule applies to them and show-up and snake their way through the crowd to get to "their" spot. To top it off, they were annoyed with those of us who had been there and waiting.
The National Anthem was beautiful. It was an ensemble of singers - first a male, adding in a female, and then rounding out with the rest of the group. Just amazing! The race started just before 8 am and I crossed the start line in about 10 minutes, which isn't bad for a group the size of the Chicago Marathon. And we were off - start line...


The Women's Elite Group - they ran as a pack for the majority of the race. Impressive!


This was mile 0.8. The building on the left side of the picture is our hotel. Lots of runners!


Typically, most marathons have markers at every mile and 5 kilometers along the route. However, since the Chicago Marathon attracts a large number of international runners, there were flags indicating every mile AND kilometer. 26.2 miles or 42 kilometers. Just in the distance flags alone, there were 68, not including the 1/2 way point. Lots of reminders of how far you had gone, or how far you still had to go.

As many of you know or others of you could guess, the cooler the weather, the better it is for the runners. With temps starting out in the upper 60s and humidity at 78% around 7:30 a.m., it was guaranteed to be a very warm, if not, down right hot day. After last year's Marathon, the organizers made several changes to this year's event, including establishing the event alert system, as shown in the photo below. The day started (that being the key word) at yellow, and was elevated to yellow earlier in the week. There were many aid stations and the fluids were plentiful. My approach was 2 cups of gatorade and 3 cups of water. I drank the gatorade, dumped one cup of water on my head, one down my back and drank the other one. Many runners breeze through the first few aid stations, however, I believe that it is there for a reason and utilized the beverages at each and everyone - all 20 of them. Yes, that is a lot of beverage to drink and yes, I was drenched, but each cup of water that I dumped on me was such a relief.

So, when did things change? If I remember correctly, it was sometime around mile 20 that we were first notified that the alert system had been upgraded to red, otherwise known as high, or that there were potentially dangerous conditions. It was recommended that we slow down and/or consider stopping. Quite honestly, it felt like a sucker punch. Only 6.2 miles to go, but it sure felt like it was long run still ahead of us. At mile 23, there was an electronic sign with the time and temperature which read a balmy 91 degrees!! At this point, I thought to myself "smart runners finish strong". As people were definitely feeling the impact of the heat, sun and humidity, I knew that I still had control over how my body was going to handle the race. From this point, I decided that I would run as much as possible, but that I would incorporate more power walking to help keep myself from getting sick or feeling the need to stop all together. It added a bit of time, but really my goal was to finish. So, I attempted to run for 3 - 4 minutes and then walk for 30 seconds - 1 minute, depending on if someone was cheering for me. To give you an idea of the itensity of the sun, this is my calf and the tan line from my capri running pants (note - the picture is upside down). At first when I saw this, I thought my legs were dirty.


Jen and Jim were at Mile .8, 3, 12 and 26. Unfortunately, we only saw each other at Mile 26. I am located in the middle of the pictured, under the Bank of America banner on the left/under the building in the middle of the picture. Look for the red shirt.

There I go... just 2/10 of a mile to go. If there was one picture that I wish I had of this marathon, it would have been the sight I saw in between the time that the two above photos where taken. Jen and Jim were right on the edge of the street. Once I found where the voices were coming from, I saw Jen with her arms outstretched, camera in one hand and her phone in the other, yelling "Josh is on the phone!!" She was so excited, smiling -- it will forever be an image that I remember.

We crossed timing mats at every 5k. Here is how I faired...

5k (3.1 miles) - 30:41

10k (6.2 miles) - 1:01:38 (+30:57 from 5k)

15K (9.3 miles) - 1:34:20 (+ 32:42 from 10K -- I did have to use the restroom in this one!)

20K (12.4 miles) - 2:07:26 (+33:06 from 15k)

13.1 miles - 2:14:52

25K (15.5 miles) - 2:41:25 (+33:59 from 20K)

30K (18.6 miles) - 3:16:36 (+35:11 from 25K -- This is where I was "lost" on the course. I forgot that we did 2 loops out to the west side of Chicago.)

35K (21.7 miles) - 3:52:31 (+35:55 from 30K -- Started dodging banana peels - a lot of them at mile 20.15!)

40K (24.8 miles) - 4:29:07 (+36:36 from 35K -- Dodged more banana peels and changed my approach to finishing the race!)

FINISH - 4:44:27 (+15:07 from 40 K or 1.2 miles later -- Just wanted to finish!)
- Pace / mile: 10:50
- Placement Overall: 15876
- Gender: 5508
- Age Division: 1464

There was a reason why the 27th Mile Post Party was given its name... it really was a good mile away from the finish. It took forever to get to the runner re-unite area. Not only did I want to see a familiar face, I wanted to talk to my husband!

At last . . .Thankfully, this isn't a close up -- a much needed change of shoes!


Still chatting, getting cooler...



Again, I cut off 53 minutes and 49 seconds from my time at the Marine Corp Marathon. I really think that if the weather had been on my side that I would have easily been able to run a 4:30 marathon. At least I can say that I ran the race that was in me, and I am proud of how well I did. It was an emotionally driven day and there were certainly points when I lost focus or rather got lost in the emotion of the day.

As I took my twice weekly (sometimes more) walks with Nan, we would often talk about the training and the race. We joked, at the time, about my "oscar acceptance speech", hence giving her the title as "warm down coach". As I proceeded through the training and race this weekend, the list of people who were there along the way really did contribute to the success of this past weekend. Here is a little shout out to the people I would like to thank.

Harland -- my (unofficial) "coach". As I have mentioned before, he coaches for Teams in Training and was always willing to give me advice, support and encouragement.

Nan -- my "warm down coach". Nan and I walked every Sunday and Wednesday beginning back in March. As the big runs came around, Nan would make sure that I got in my "warm down" walk and or a mid-week walk on a day off. The Pasquarello's were huge supporters.

Hailey -- my "fan club President". Hailey was always willing to share my story and always asked how the training was going. She even decorated the garage for my return.

Lisa (and TJ) -- my "training partner(s)". Lisa would come and rescue me during the mid-length and long runs, running by my side for a few miles, to help break up the length. TJ was along for the ride.

Heather -- the training blogger from Michigan. Sharing the trials and tribulations, "badges of honor", and anxiety of it all with you was incredible. I look forward to chatting with you again soon.

My family -- my lifeline to get through this year. I'll admit you are all right - I am probably insane, but your support makes me believe that I can do anything. My parents were at the airport with their Chicago 26.2 shirts on when I arrived home. It was such a wonderful surprise.


Jen and Brew -- my "curb crew". Jen and Jim (Brew) flew in from D.C. to cheer me on and we had a wonderful weekend together. I can't thank them enough for everything they did with me that weekend. Just knowing they were in the crowd, though I didn't see them and they didn't see me, helped to keep me going. It was incredible to share the experience with them. Again, my favorite part was seeing Jen at Mile 26 when she told me Josh was on the phone! Priceless!

And of course... Josh - You are and will always be my greatest inspiration. I love you and we really are one step closer to you coming home. Better lace up those running shoes and start practicing! Wink!

14 October 2008

The Race Weekend - Saturday, October 11

Awaiting the “curb crew”… Jennifer (Josh’s sister) and Jim (Jen’s boyfriend) flew in from DC to cheer to me on. Their flight was the first one out, so they were to the hotel around 9 a.m. Of course, I was across the street at the point when they arrived, but it was a good thing, as inside of Dominick’s (the local grocery store), there was a Starbucks!! Jim is a diehard coffee drinker, so I knew this was a good find. I picked up a few things – water, energy bar, bananas, granola bars, and a coke for Jen – and headed back to meet them in the lobby of the hotel, where I escorted them to our 13th floor room (more to come on this). After we dropped everything, we headed to Starbucks to get our cup of joe or chai for the trip to the Expo.

When I selected the hotel, I factored in a few things – the Embassy Suites offered a complimentary breakfast (and not just a continental one - funny though, we never made it down there), it’s proximity to the Magnificent Mile, and most importantly, the short walk to the shuttle bus pick-up for the Expo. So, a block away, we were at the shuttle bus pick-up. It was wonderful. For those of you who haven’t been to Chicago, they have an above-ground and underground street system. Among the underground system is an express lane for buses transporting people to the McCormick Convention Center. It was a 10 minute shuttle and we were there, far beating the stop and go traffic of a cab or car.

Not that I have been to many marathon expos, this being only my third, it was by far the most well organized event in terms of runner registration/packet-pick-up. A very large room was devoted entirely to picking up the runner packets. No lines, just walk right up and voila! Everything was clearly identifiable which made it very easy to move around and go from place.

The expo itself was wonderful! I had the chance to see the Marathon Bloggers during their Main Stage session.
Eight runners of varying abilities and all with different reasons for running blogged about their training throughout the summer leading up to race day. Several of them posted e-mail addresses to connect with other runners as well.

Heather, who was running her first marathon, and I chatted quite regularly via e-mail, sharing our training runs, experiences, and any tidbits of information that we could pass along to one another. I had the opportunity to meet her face to face and Jen took this picture of the two of us. A pretty rare opportunity to connect with a complete stranger in this way and I am proud to say that I think we will continue to chat long after this marathon.





The goodie bags were good in the sense that the bag was large and it gave you an opportunity to stuff any other freebies or purchases with carrying an excessive number of bags. So what exactly comes in the “goodie bag”? Truthfully, for most people – it’s a lot of junk - flyers for other marathons, product samples, coupons for local restaurants or businesses, and any chance for people to get their name out there. After all, 45,000 runners (and potentially their guests) see the contents of the bag. Typically, the best part of the goodie bag is the Marathon shirt. I can’t say that I was overly impressed with the shirt. It’s nice – another technical running shirt with an image of the Chicago sky line on it. Of course the Bank of America logo was smack dab in the front of the shirt. It was okay and perhaps one day when I use it for a run, I will appreciate it more. But, I made up for it with my next stop in the expo…

Nike was the official apparel sponsor for the Marathon and had a HUGE shop set-up in the middle of the expo. After I ran the Marine Corp Marathon in 2006, I decided that I deserved a treat for completing the marathon and purchased the official jacket. In tradition and to guarantee that I would be getting the jacket, I bought it at the expo. It’s actually the men’s jacket. I personally didn’t care for the women’s options. The theme/design seemed to very retro, so I opted for the most “clean-cut” version. It says Chicago08 on the front and 26.2RunChi on the left sleeve.

We registered for the chance to win a 2 year lease on a Volkswagon. As you may have read, Josh is car shopping from Afghanistan and I have received several packets of information from them. I guess since I am still waiting for my phone call, it probably means I wasn’t so lucky this time. VW was a huge sponsor of the race – they were the “pace car”, though the elite runners really determined the pace on this one.

This is a special picture for Josh...


The list of vendors for the Expo is long and varied. There are your typical vendors - athletic apparel, running gear, etc. And then there are those that bring out the humorous side of running...

From Sistas Shirts...



From One More Mile ...



My only other purchase was a print of a picture that a gentleman painted of the Chicago Marathon. http://www.lastingcommemoratives.com/products/product-listing.aspx?id=113

After this purchase, we made our way back to the shuttle pick-up for our return to the hotel.
We dropped everything off to venture out for lunch. I think it became apparent that when it came to meals, the three of us were pretty indecisive at where we were going. As we walked along the streets, we came to Giordano’s, which is famous for it’s Chicago Deep Dish Stuffed Pizza. Upon entering, we discovered that our wait was going to be 45 minutes, so we decided to head further north, were I had explored via the shuttle bus the night before. Tavern on Rush was this wonderful restaurant that was busting the night before. We were luck as they had a table indoors immediately available. It was such a wonderful meal… though our waitress was a bit flighty. As I said, Jim enjoys his coffee and it took about 20 minutes for her to bring that to him.
We perused Michigan Avenue (aka the Magnificent Mile) and went by Niketown, a very large Nike store. What was most amazing was that they had silhouette of the Chicago skyline at the bottom of their outdoor wall display, with all of the runners names throughout large space above. It was like trying to find a needle in haystack and unfortunately, we never found mine. I joked that my name was probably behind one of the buildings in the silhouette.
We were lazy for the rest of the afternoon and then ventured out for dinner. At this point, we decided we would try for Giordano’s again. Obviously, on a Saturday night, any restaurant is going to be full and the wait long. We were told an hour and a half. There was an Italian place (remember – carbo loading!) across of the street, but their wait was the same. Long story short, this meal is probably on the top 5 all-time worst dining experiences that I have encountered. We were told to order the pizza 40 minutes after we signed-in. Well, after finally being seated a little more than 2 hours later, you can imagine what the pizza was like. I ordered the pasta that was awful. Thankfully, I asked for some bread and it was a large loaf. Yes, I ate the whole thing. Needless-to-say, none of us were thrilled, nor would recommend it to anyone… but it certainly gave us something to talk about.
We took a minor “detour” home that night. We missed the turn for our street and ended up visiting Northwestern University’s campus – it is gorgeous. We also saw the Navy Pier and the famous ferris wheel that is usually identified with anything Chicago. It’s huge and very pretty when it is lit up at night. We made our way back to the hotel and called it a night, off to dream about the big race.